My affections and wishes have not changed.But one word from you will silence me for ever.If, however,your feelings have changed.

pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us. 骄傲多半涉及我们自己怎样看待自己，而虚荣则涉及我们想别人怎样看我们

“再也没有比这种表面上的谦逊态度更叫人容易上当的了，”达西说，“这常常只是一种不愿明辨是非的轻率行为，有时候则是一种间接的自夸。”

Where there is a real superiority of mind,pride will be always under good regulation.